Loving myself makes me a happy Parent

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Loving myself makes me a happy and content Parent.

No! That doesn’t make me a selfish Parent.

Hang in there and read the quote on the image below please.


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Now read this again!

Keep reading this affirmation again and again until it hits you hard.

Keep reading it until you picturize yourself in this situation.

Keep reading it repeatedly until you are able to imagine your face when you follow this affirmation.

Imagine how your day would be when you have taken care of your own needs first.
Do you see a smile of contentment on your face?

Yes! Yes!

That is what you need.

That smile of satisfaction is the secret weapon that can help you deal with any challenge.

Tell yourself this:

” Loving myself makes me a happy Parent”.

You are Important!
You can’t forget yourself while parenting..

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Loving myself and taking care ofย  my happiness won’t make me a selfish parent.

Loving myself ensures that I’m always working towards being a better parent for my kids.

If you saw my yesterday’s stories on Instagram, you would know I woke up on the wrong side of the bed just because Loving myself wasn’t on priority list last week. Watch the video below to see how my Instagram family helped me get my mojo back.

The monthly cycle chose a wrong day to strike ( the day when I had lots of tasks to take care of).

I took a breather, had my coffee, cuddled with my girls, did some ‘ choote maate’ with them (if you are a Punjabi you would know what it means๐Ÿ˜), played loud music on the firestick and sat with my coffee.

And if you read the above paragraph carefully, you would know that all the above actions were the ones that could make ME happy and I didn’t worry about my long To-Do list.

I didn’t do any chore, I didn’t worry about my assignment, or any other stuff that was troubling me in the morning.

Now that’s the power of self love.
It’s serious business girls…
It really works..

It always works in fact.

Much love to each one of you who made me chuckle with your epic suggestions to my cranky stories. You too were responsible for making my day brighter๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜. And love to those who couldn’t reply, but silently wished I would get my mojo back๐Ÿค—.
Now write this affirmation down and read it to yourself like you would take a multivitamin ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿค—
Much love,
Preetjyot Kaur
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Preetjyot Kaur
Preetjyot Kaur is an Internationally Accredited Life Coach for Kids and a Certified Parenting Coach who strongly believes in breaking the stereotypes. She helps her clients to learn how to fulfil their dreams by helping them train their mind, manage emotions & energy to achieve what they truly desire. For over 6 years she has mentored quite a number of kids and parents to move closer to a better way of living.


  1. Self-love is very important. Today, I shared about self-worth and self-love on my Insta feed and now I am reading this post. Self-love is never selfish. Infact, It fosters healthy relationship. We cannot make others happy with we are not feeling happy from within.

  2. THis is great for mums who feel low with all the work that is expected out of them. Trust me, spending time with my little kids is a stress buster though they keep on talking non stop hahahha….

  3. Love yourself in any and every role you play in life; for if you won’t, nobody will.
    I have learnt this lesson the hard way. Wish would have read this article back then.

  4. Awesome post. Self-love is simply valuing your self-worth, how can it be selfish Never!! Yes, That’s Sad truth many times self-love is misunderstood by the insane crowd. I believe to lead a contented life Self-love is extremely important!

  5. There was a time when I was completely forgot about myself, only work, work and wok. It lead me to a lot mental pain and physical issues. Now, I’m spending time on me.

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